We are born with an innate drive to seek responsive and safe emotional connections with others, and this drive remains vitally active throughout our life. We intuitively know when the felt sense of connection with our loved ones is off! We long to know we matter to those we love and need this emotional connection to live into the fullness of who we were created to be. Life challenges and family of origin experiences can collide and strain the best of marriages. Sometimes couples need help to work through problematic patterns and barriers that limit their ability to experience the fullness of what their relationship can offer.
Couples counseling can help to identify the source of interpersonal conflict and disappointment that perpetuates feelings of isolation.
Unmet needs and fears can be explored in Relationship counseling to promote a better understanding of yourself and your partner..
Emotional safety is nurtured in Couples therapy which can allow each partner to communicate in a way they can feel heard and understood.
Common Topics Addressed in Marriage Counseling Include:
- Conflict Resolution
- Ineffective Communication
- Attachment Patterns and Style of Relating
- Betrayal of Trust and Relational Safety
- Repair of Attachment Injuries such as Emotional Withdrawal or Stonewalling
- Roles and Responsibilities
- Emotional Intimacy and Issues of Sexuality
- Authenticity and Vulnerability
- Parenting
- Bridging Individual and Couple's Story
Relational hope can be rekindled with care and kindness.